Off the Record
Big feelings on academia, family finances and my top 5 purchases this year
It’s been just over a month since classes wrapped and a few weeks since graduation, and already my days are unrecognizable.
The sprint ended.
The calendar opened up.
My insomnia vanished (poof!).
I stopped clenching my jaw (kind of, some habits die hard).
For the first time since January, I have room to think. And, I’m processing some big feelings. But I’ll balance the existential with the practical, because I think you come here for both. Inside this Off the Record:
The infuriating thing that happened in my professional life (and why I think it illuminates a key problem of higher education). Yes, I feel sassy and saucy and I’m letting it rip.
Financial trade-offs my family is making this summer while I’m not teaching.
5 most useful things I’ve bought in 2025 (and how each one is making life easier).
If you’ve been thinking about becoming a paid subscriber but haven’t subscribed, here’s a preview of what’s coming to the Substack this summer:
How we manage our household, Part 2 (including answers to all of your questions)
10 behind-the-scenes systems that keep our home running smoothly
My Semi-Annual Guide to decluttering and running a Home Audit
Every single clothing purchase I’ve made in the last 100 days, my wins and mistakes
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Alright. Let’s go Off the Record.
So… I win this big teaching award—like, a possibly-career-defining one (yes, I’m wildly grateful)—and two days later, I get an email that says